There used to be a wise saying about arguments that helped keep things civil. One party or the other would say, “I disagree with what you say, but I defend with my life your right to say it.”

That sounds downright quaint in today’s climate, where partisans are more likely to say, “I disagree with what you say, and you are evil and have no right to that opinion!”

This month, as we celebrate Independence Day, we can relish the freedoms we take for granted, including freedom of speech, religion, and assembly.

At the same time, as Christians we remember Jesus’ commands not only to love our neighbors as ourselves (Mark 12:31) but also to do unto others as we would have them do to us (Matthew 7:12). The
“neighbors” and “others” certainly include those who hold different ideas on issues of the day.

How can we celebrate our freedom of expression in the context of Jesus’ commands?

• Listen carefully, being open to another person’s ideas.
• Respond thoughtfully and calmly, citing facts to support your argument.
• Do not attack the person, only the ideas.
• If things get too heated, discontinue the discussion.
• Remember the wise old saying, “I disagree with what you say, but I defend with my life your right to say it.”

We are stewards of our relationships with our neighbors. As followers of Jesus, we can be stewards of civility and lead our country to calmer, more amicable times.

Rob Blezard

Copyright ©2023 Rev. Robert Blezard. Reprinted by permission. Pastor Blezard works as content editor for www.stewardshipoflife.org and serves as pastor of St. Paul’s Lutheran Church, Aberdeen, MD.